Relationships 101

Did you consider, that when one partner finds it tough to cope with intense feelings, it can create a precarious situation, making the risk of relapse feel very real? The fear of being left behind, mixed with the constant need for reassurance, can lead to some tricky dynamics and emotional ups and downs. 🤔

During this time, you may notice feelings of obsession and codependency emerging. The quest for love and validation can sometimes feel all-consuming, making it easy to forget the importance of focusing on yourself and your personal growth. If you’re grappling with insecurity or low self-esteem, it’s natural to seek validation from your partner rather than build your own self-worth. This can create a cycle where the relationship becomes a way to fill the void left by the substances or behaviours you’re trying to move past. 🌹

When you and your partner focus more on each other than on your individual healing journeys, it can stall your progress. It’s crucial to remember that recovery is a deeply personal experience. While having a supportive partner can feel wonderful, it shouldn’t replace the time and effort needed for your own self-discovery and wellness. Sometimes, the pressure to keep your relationship strong can distract you from the vital work of finding yourself again. 💫 

But here’s the good news: there is so much hope! Building deep, meaningful connections in a safe and supportive environment can be such a gift during this journey. It’s not just about learning to love yourself; it’s also about freeing yourself from guilt and shame and allowing yourself to experience love healthily. 💙

Surrounding yourself with friends and loved ones who uplift you can provide the encouragement and stability you need as you navigate the changes ahead. ✨

Are you ready to love your recovery first? 

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